My condolences to you and your family. The.rational .they.r.private cemeteries and have I've done a small number of photo requests from the site at a local cemetery. This person stalks and harasses me by following my flowers i leave on thousands of memorials. You must include a valid cemetery ID or URL. This account already exists, but the email address still needs to be confirmed. This will give you a space to inform the manager of the memorial about the use of the wrong photo. Information provided is not true. Stone doesn't last forever . The answer is NO and she's not going to respond to emails. This includes both general and info of a more private nature that most families do nor want published on the net. My comment is not directed at those who do it for their own genealogy or add friends. Stop awarding points like trophies. But unlike FindAGrave you are in control and its you who decide on what data is included in the memorial. I have been in a cemetery when a church group of about 30 swooped in and started downloading headstones. Unlike Western thought Mormons do not believe in a trinity and some deny Christ as the son of God. Find A Grave is open to anyone creating a memorial for a deceased person with a known disposition. I had my fathers memorial, my grandfathers, my grandmother, my great grand parents stolen from my control by someone who isn't related. You can always change this later in your Account settings. I even put in for a forgot password thinking I had it wrong and I don't even get a email to reset it. This is an ethics issue here ! Plan to go early in the day, in case it takes you a while to find the exact location. Sometimes if you initiate polite conversation, they will comply or explain why they won't. For some cemeteries, it is against their policy to allow pic taking/give plot info to non-family for security/privacy purposes. Desired outcome is for Wendy EBENSTEIN Norman to transfer my grandfather's Find a Grave Memorial Page to me. And he is friends with [censored] staff because he had something done to one of my postings so that it could not be edited. She can even risk to take grave photos unauthorized It is a wonderful thing we all do here, but historians need to not only just walk the grave yards then make a memorial so they can get their numbers up. This browser does not support getting your location. Voila! I don't know who she is. the site should really remove that photo especially if your 6-yr daugther had not died. this is serious violation to your daughter's personal image/reputation. So much unneccesary stress its to the point I consider suicide. Twice I have submitted a maiden name for a deceased relative and twice been declined - Non related people can steal your family (Dead family dead friends) photo/headstone, and put online in their name on creator list, when you ask them transfer to you, they said no and even claim to staff you harass they. Not just steal. [1] Wowmost of you really need to get a life. I do not care how many countless hours "Find A Grave's cyber ghouls put into it. Good luck! I have been a member of Find a Grave for almost 16 years, and work constantly to upgrade other Find a Grave memorials. And, if so, where. and your account will be suspended. Find a Grave - Millions of Cemetery Records World's largest gravesite collection. I started on there when it first started as a way to link my family and friends family for future generations, but once they started making it a contest it became distasteful and grotesque. listed divorce dates, ex spouses names and material of a more private nature our family did not want to share with the world. Why? aged 43, married I can spend DAYS combing a cemetery with over 15, ooo headstones to find just one. The new "Complaints" page was created by the same person, Mr. Pritchard, who contributed the 13 complaints. Users upload photos of headstones and memorials, transcriptions of engravings, biographical information and links to family members. And we are all volunteers. Desired outcome: I thank them for their time and move on. I have contacted find a grave through their website and received one response but no corrections! If she isn't corrected, my family and I will take further action. Find a Grave is a website that allows the public to search and add to an online database of cemetery records. Yet, often it is the only remaining record about a person's survivors, due to the fact that Ancestry does not have all possible records indexed. I don't know who took your daughter's photo (or anyone else in here). But why bother. My complaint was with those who rush to submit the memorial as soon as they can-whether they have any connection to the person, the cemetery, or the general area. Please include the cemetery ID number or the URL to the cemetery page on Find a Grave. When I confronted this whale of a whale to relinquished ownership and return the memorial back to me I was banned. I am a private person in life and I want privacy when I die. "Be mindful of what you say and you must have respect dealing with this." I do it because it helps many people to feel closer to a loved one. It was not put here for it to be a tug of war or a battleground everyone must follow the rules and regulations and not step on anyone's feet. That's what you want the memorials you want to control transferred to you. So I've been a member of [censored] for about About 3 months now, and the only reason I entered the website was to find my ancestors and connect a few branches. Kind regards, Although, I bet you could associate ANY activity as a contest - you seem to have a GIANT chip on your shoulder about this. FuryH, unlist the current cemetery. Sharon, if I may say, you are ridiculous. I understand why it is a blessing to some people, however it does in fact invade the privacy of many families. Once redeemed these souls may enter heaven and start having children. You need a Find a Grave account to continue. State, Local, and Tribal Governments Find contact information for state, local, and tribal governments. Says their third great grandfather was the brother of my third great grandfather. The other ad location that I have a problem with is the one at the end of the memorial which relegates the memorial owner/contributor ("created by") to the bottom of the page . Back then it was a site consisting of records of celebrities and their burial sites. if you put your daughter photo online, anyone can also use it without letting you know The dead have no right to privacy. I have been asking for four years for Wendy EBENSTEIN Norman - Find a Grave ID [protected] to transfer William Ambrose Kogomo Sky-Eagle Sr. Memorial ID [protected] to me. They need to be documented while they still exist so future family members can honor their memory too. It is very obvious that he is upset with Find-A-Grave. In fact, he has added pictures that he took from one of my memorials without any attribution and he cropped the picture to remove my uncle from the picture. The pay version is a one time 30 bucks. I never heard back so it's still there. Find A Grave - Has no check against rampant fraud. View social follower numbers, contact emails, reviews and podcasts like Grave Matters. My estranged sister became Manager on my fathers site and added a nickname to his name on the site. In most cases they don't. The whole point of a grave stone is to publicly honor the person's life. (they are in many places) Marriages and divorces? posts. I wanted to create a memorial for my grandfather and grandmother on Find A Grave. I'm an amateur genealogist and I've heard of the unsavory practices of Find A Grave members, so I Another member of Find a Grave is holding my grandfather's memorial page hostage. this fraud is a sociopathic means of lying and a person getting their false praise and getting money for their prostitution. It requires patience. No materials from this website may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, or distributed in any way. Find A Grave does not allow Photo Volunteers to charge money for volunteering. It all boils down to how well you play with others. I am 13 years old and I understand this more than the adults doing this out of "the kindness of their hearts." So yeah! I also discussed talking to attorney to see if I could get some type of restraining order to prohibit my grave site from appearing on ###. Stop awarding points like trophies. if you not know the person, you take their headstone, put on findagrave. Kind regards. The person who stole them claims to be related although they arent and they have never met any of my family. So contact ancestry.Com about this. This comment was posted by a verified customer. Action, and change of name on Memorial or transfer to myself so I can put pertinent information on the Memorial. Are you going to say "facebook is public, not yours. i was disappointed because i have been looking for his interment for years but i was even more disapointed when the owner of the memorial refused to change the listed cemetery i emailed find a grave about this and it took them 1 month to respond they told me that if i could not prove they aren't buried there then they will help. I would say that many members provide relevant information and are not "collectors" of graves and the service they provide in invaluable. However, there are two key areas where FindAGrave could be made better and should be made better. Even if it's only photo share, if you not ask owner. God bless you all ! And if we are being honest, in the moments of grief and loss no one wants to look like an *** by taking a photo at the funeral and the pain families struggle with for weeks, months and even years later prevent most families from ever doing it. Learn more about requesting management here. Find A Grave deceptive, rip off, scam Salt Lake City, UT. Are you going to say "facebook is public, not yours. We can resolve this issue. . When a member will not relinquish a memorial to a direct family member (as stated in the rules), then they are breaking the rules and they should loose their privilege to use Find A Grave. Read full review of Find A Grave and 1 comment. To find cemetery records for New York in the FamilySearch Catalog follow these steps: Go to the FamilySearch Catalog Enter: New York in the Place box Click on: Search Click on: Cemeteries To search for cemeteries at the county level follow directions below Go to the FamilySearch Catalog Enter: New York in the Place box Click on: Search if realy so (if so). I don't see reasons for the anguish. Findagrave does not relinquish hold on a memorial when their representative is not reachable to contact. If you know the cemetery where someone is buried but you're not sure exactly which plot is theirs, take a trip to the graveyard. Do you want your child forgotten? So you consider adding a memorial on there before the person is even buried as empathetic? The same thing has happened to me and my suggestion never went through. people would mistaken that she had died. You must ask permission from the deceased person's family before you take those headstone photos. You've closed your mind to anything other . I understand you way too well, and I am so sorry that they lack enough common sense to put that sort of private information up online. Wasted my timeFind A Grave has changed a lot since it changed hands. Desired outcome: If prehistoric or unmarked burials are encountered, stop work immediately and contact the THC's Archeology Division for advice at 512-463-6096, or archeology@thc.texas.gov. The rationale: They do not want a resting place for the dead to be devourered by FindAGrave's cyber knowitall undertakers. To a point, I don't blame him. And yes, they are a husband-wife . And Nothing was ever done. This comment was posted by a verified customer. People who hate memorials listed as "burial details unknown", Aggressive elderly man is mad at me because I made his memorial famous, Find A Grave - protects stalkers and harassments, Find A Grave - Unfair and bad membership service, Find A Grave - Added to website before a family knew a death had happened. We are no longer private people. For more than 15 years we have helped nearly 50000 customers resolve their issues and will never stop striving to ensure further improvements on our platform for a better communication between companies and customers. they will ban her. based on information from your browser. This is not precious. Create a findagrave.com account and then click "suggest edits" and then there will be an option to request management of the memorial. not all people know your daughter had not really died. More precisely people who want to create a memorial for a deceased loved one. For your money u can add videos, music and unlimited photos. It is in fact not precious hard work, it is simply walking around and taking pictures of graves. i tried to explain the situation but they stopped replying. now findagrave even suspended me and deleted my dead freind burial records. My one complaint with Findagrave is that they apparently allow people to put up memorials when they have no idea where or if the person was buried. I attempted to get Megan Heyl to turn these memorials back over to the family. It is essentially a long term lease from the cemetery. So when someone dies; and their obituary states that they were predeceased by their parents and their spouse, the only way to find their relatives is through an obituary search. "Find A Grave's" support generally ignores family requests in favour of their cyber ghouls who r constantly on the lookout to create just one more memorial in hopes of hitting the million mark. I think it's very selfish to want to keep them to yourself. they have family/friends help them compete for the right and privacy. I am wandering am I, going to have to pay Ancestery .Com now for all the info that was suppose to be free on find. The one who will not relinquish my relatives said his wife is a relative, however, he admitted she is only a cousin and does not even provide relevant biographical information to their "memorials". My Find a Grave ID is: [protected] cemeteries found in Pimpama, Gold Coast City, Queensland, Australia will be saved to your photo volunteer list.. cemeteries found within miles of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list.. cemeteries found within kilometers of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list.. Nobody would love f## site. Findagrave is a profitable business. Translation on Find a Grave is an ongoing project. My name is Bill Sky-Eagle. R.L. I don't see the point in the complaint. Find A Grave has many untrue information. Best wishes, A kind, generous, and gentle man, he was born on August 18, 1933 in Claiborne County. it's your choice to take unauthorized headstone and put on findagrave. Be mindful of what you say and you must have respect in dealing with this. "Findagrave" has been given 24 hours to transfer Robert Paul Carmichael #[protected] and Jessie Jacobs Carmichael #[protected] memorials into my care. think how bad it would mean. They do have a number and findagrave is owned by Ancestry.Com. ComplaintsBoard.com is a leading complaint resolution website on the Internet. I use it to the best of my ability to help others. Graves do not have copyrights either. The mechanics do not work like you were brainwashed to believe. You then control exactly what's on the memorial. Not everyone who provides this service (and yes it is a service maybe not to you NOW but to future generations who will be very happy someone like me gifted my time and love for family history to make sure their ancestor could be found.. definitely). More precisely people who want to create a memorial for a deceased loved one. Saying "there is no reason" is like a petulant child plugging their ears. Find a grave.com photographed my 6 year old daughter's headstone and put it online. Solution: Make a new account, follow the rules, and be nice. So I am very sorry for your loss, as I still have pot gotten over mine, fortunately for me, I now have a nine year old granddaughter from my son. It isn't particularly onerous, but it does require patience - - - and being civil. While the gravesite or plot is purchased and owned by the person who will be buried there, or by a family member as needed when someone passes, it cannot be sold (thus it is not property owned). Not true! 07:27 PM. Review the Help section for answers to the most common questions. FindAGrave is pure grossess. Find A Grave is eventually going to be sued and it will undoubtedly take down the site and their business. By CVal, 2 hours ago. The information on six posts are false and falsely placed according to statements of family and or records listed. Ancestry manages Find a Grave. I did research about Marcel Loubens and emailed findagrave to ask they are ingrates, they dont allow anything negative to be said thats why i want this post to be known publis how they are prot putinist pro stalinist and WHY NEVER EVER TO SUPPORT FINDAGRAVE.COM IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM! 04/17/2022 I do a few memorials for family and friends. Because you are not their ONLY relative and others requested or may want to see it. Q: Where did you see anything at all, ANYWHERE, about Find A Grave themselves "saying" they "award points"? This will surely increase the credibility of your complaint. Ms. DiMarco is a complete stranger who has NO familial ties to these memorials. When burial details are unknown, Ancestry has a "global" index for this. No materials from this website may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, or distributed in any way. "Tom" Carpenter, age 84, passed from life to eternal life on Wednesday. Sigh of relief. If you've done anything that was recorded, it's there. A community of members that work together, share information and help people from all over the world to find, record and present final disposition information as a virtual cemetery experience. My parents and grandparents memorials were hijacked by Patsy Lubben DiMarco. I have been a member of Find-A-Grave for close to 9 months and submitted over a thousand photos and memorials that many people are grateful to find. Click here to get notifications about new complaints of Find A Grave. It's totally against what their mission is. Then rebaptize the dead into the Mormon faith. Find a Grave Team November 17, 2020 at 10:42 am Hi Marsha, please contact support@findagrave.com and explain this situation with details and we'll look into this further. This is totally wrong. If I was that person whose picture is there I would be very upset. Find a Grave singles out only certain people. By the time I got home 2 hours later my family was already loaded. Submit a complaint and get your issue resolved. Why would anyone think it's OK to post biographical information like this about an 8 year old? Please DO NOT add attachments that contain your or other peoples personal information, if you dont want it to be visible to the public. better not put personal photos online(esp girl naked photos). Well, Sharon Haywood, many of the volunteers here don't even hold an ounce of respect when they do this. Resend Activation Email, Please check the I'm not a robot checkbox, If you want to be a Photo Volunteer you must enter a ZIP Code or select your location on the map. Add a new memorial or a photo and GPS location to an existing memorial. She's also violating her fiduciary role as a "Findagrave" volunteer. Memorial: Mary Payne ([protected]) Historical Society. Even when you use facebook other person photo, u must also ask owner permission. I even added a picture of my relative and the person told@ me to take it down. There was a problem getting your location. The family moved to the Mohawk Community in Greene County when Tom was three years old because the Norris Dam took their farm. Nasty sorry this happened to you it certainly shouldnt happened. When confronted they claim they r performing.a service if families want it or not. I'd like to say that this website is in fact, not a blessing. It's that simple. This website uses future generations as an excuse to take photos of children, babies, adults, of all ages and post them online. Search famous graves, newly added graves, most popular graves. There is a contributor on here named Running Deer who has created a memorial for a nephew of mine. If people want to keep stuff private, then they shouldnt print obituaries. I am sorry that your loved one has passed. I've been bullied by dozens of people just because a memorial for a man born over 200 years ago doesn't have information on where he was buried. She claims she has THE RIGHT to document what she pleases. Many private cemeteries have banned FindAGravd's top contributor cyber ghouls from taking photos of tombstones. We had collected written history of his life and contributions to Montgomery county Md. This is stealing/theft/vandalism. Then they boot you out or ban u. Some people do not want their family members in the site, and its not your God-given right as a volunteer to ignore that. Findagrave does not help with suggested edits. FindAGrave was meant to help people find where someone's last resting place was. I don't love how Find A Grave is run and it irks me that much of the information on the site is really terribly inaccurate, but presented in a manner that makes many people take it as fact, and impossible to correct or contribute to with the territorial attitude that the managing of memorials seems to foster. I dont think anyone takes photos of headstones to hurt anyone but only to help others find where their ancestors/relatives were laid to rest and to preserve history. Nuff said. My heart goes out to you. Mostly we are retired in any case. FindAGrave Administrators- Caleb, Mikenna, and Amber. I can see why they dropped you. God forbid you had a famous relative? Find A Grave is also owed by Mormons who get browie points 4 baptising the dead into their faith. Assure them you'll go legal and watch then cave. Nobody is asking you to do anything so don't worry about it. Please wait a few minutes and try again. For more information about the cemetery or burials within it or buying a plot, you should contact the cemetery directly. You really don't need all the drama FindAGrave's hierarchy throws in your face. All I can add is just be respectful, if someone asks you to transfer a family member or asks you to take something down, I would go ahead and do it.
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